A Lady's Power House

***A LADY'S POWER HOUSE***

By Nikita Ogban

A woman with big breasts, big buttocks, tiny waist and wide hips is regarded as a power house for men!
She is seen as a beauty goddess that must be worshipped especially when she has a moon-like/oblong face with dreamy eyes, pointed nose and full, sensuous, succulent lips to match! She is believed to have power over men as they drool over her with an awe, and consider the man who has sex with her as super lucky!
Naturally, women loved to be sexually desirable to men so when no one is turning his head towards her, she is naturally worried!
But WAIT A MINUTE, that's Hollywood & Nollywood's definition of a lady's Power House to deceive the naive minds.

AS A LADY, YOUR POWER HOUSE IN REAL LIFE GOES BEYOND YOUR BODY!
You are not going to eat sex everyday of your life. No man wants to spend the rest of his life with a bottom of the barrel, empty-brained woman with nothing to offer but a figure 8 shape! There are many hour-glass women walking about brainless, empty, completely numbskulls, and irresponsible.
I knew deep inside of me that I will emerge Miss Unical 2010 as early as year 1 in University of Calabar. I was pissed off with seeing beautiful ladies without brains.
If it was physical beauty, connections, wealth, influential family etc, there's NO way, I would have emerged Miss University of Calabar 2010, nor win the prestigious crown of Miss Niger Delta 2012.
I knew I had few things all those beautiful ladies from influential families didn't have. Most of them are amazing snobs and unnecessarily prideful.
LADIES:

1. YOUR BRAIN IS YOUR NUMBER ONE POWER HOUSE!
Women who hold men spell bound are intelligent. They read, they ask questions, they research, they update their knowledge, they are not afraid to take calculative risks in business. Real men are mesmerized by super intelligent women.

2. YOUR HANDS ARE YOUR POWER HOUSE! Hard working women hold men spell bound!

3. YOUR BANK ACCOUNT IS YOUR POWER HOUSE! Ladies who make their own money are super attractive. Men chase them right, left and center. Learn to work with your 2 hands and have money in your own bank account!
Believe me, they would come a time you will have to rely on your OWN money.

4. CONFIDENCE IS A POWER HOUSE! Confident women are super attractive! They have their own mind. They do not seek to please everyone and act like chameleon. They know exactly what they want in life and go for it, what others think about them is none of their business! They aren't in competition with no one.

6. YOUR SPIRITUALITY IS A POWER HOUSE!
Women who feed their spirit with the word of God, whether as a Muslim or Christian carry's power! They spent time to meditate, enquire, dig deep to unravel the mystery of their existence, and passionate about helping humanity.

7. YOUR TALENT IS YOUR POWER HOUSE! When you develop it and make good use of it, men turn to your direction. "Who is this pretty lady?, she has what I need to compliment me".

8. YOUR TIME IS YOUR POWER HOUSE!
Use it to your own advantage. Stop to roam about the streets with shameless and stupid gossips. From one gossip blog to another.

9. YOUR BREASTS, BUTTOCKS AND VAGINA: These are your power house IN MARRIAGE to hold YOUR HUSBAND spell bound, birth your baby and breast feed the innocent little one, it's not for having sex with every man that approaches you as a single Lady. You are not a local whore, you're a Global Worth. please, zip up!
It's okay to have a great figure. It's NOT okay to be brainless, useless and irresponsible with it.
It's okay if you do not have figure 8 shape. Develop exceptional qualities and you'll attract the right man.
Life is more than getting married though, but prepare to be an outstanding success in everything you do, that in itself is fulfilling.
Be a woman of influence!