"People think at the end of the day that a man is the only answer to fulfillment, actually a job is better for me." Princess Diana
I'm yet to see a man who would do a thing or give a thing freely to a girl or wife without getting something in exchange, complaining, or mocking her when he is tired, angry or get fade up thereafter. I did not get free things from men, I had to beg to get it. Those men weren't good to me, my father gave me good education but it wasn't really free, he wanted a child who would be naive, he wanted a child who would succumb to his wishes, orders, rules and commands, he wanted a child who would sacrifice her own dreams and aspirations for him, he wanted a child he would feed forever and make mockery of forever, he wanted a child who would pay for the good education he gave with her own life. I went to school to liberate myself, not to make him happy. When I had no money, I went to closed men so they could help me but they were after what I could offer them. They wanted sex, they wanted their pleasure, some were happy to hear my predicament so as to take advantage of a naive girl they thought I was. Today, I won't wish even my worst enemy a bad marriage because the children are always at risk, I won't wish them to be jobless with a bad husband. It is so unfortunate that most of these men especially the egocentric, poor and wretched ones made their wives jobless. Some don't want a working class lady so the wife won't be greater than him and so he won't be seen as a weak man as though marriage is a competition. Some stopped their wives from having a job or doing something relevant to help humanity. I would choose a good job over a bad marriage because I have seen the pains in it all. Truly a woman's money is her power. And a woman without education, money and a voice would just be treated anyhow. I would do the good work of passion till the day God calls me to glory. Like my mother do say, " A bad man can make a good woman loose Heaven." this is true, most women are doing illegal things to keep a man who do not even want them or want to be kept.
I'm yet to see a man who would do a thing or give a thing freely to a girl or wife without getting something in exchange, complaining, or mocking her when he is tired, angry or get fade up thereafter. I did not get free things from men, I had to beg to get it. Those men weren't good to me, my father gave me good education but it wasn't really free, he wanted a child who would be naive, he wanted a child who would succumb to his wishes, orders, rules and commands, he wanted a child who would sacrifice her own dreams and aspirations for him, he wanted a child he would feed forever and make mockery of forever, he wanted a child who would pay for the good education he gave with her own life. I went to school to liberate myself, not to make him happy. When I had no money, I went to closed men so they could help me but they were after what I could offer them. They wanted sex, they wanted their pleasure, some were happy to hear my predicament so as to take advantage of a naive girl they thought I was. Today, I won't wish even my worst enemy a bad marriage because the children are always at risk, I won't wish them to be jobless with a bad husband. It is so unfortunate that most of these men especially the egocentric, poor and wretched ones made their wives jobless. Some don't want a working class lady so the wife won't be greater than him and so he won't be seen as a weak man as though marriage is a competition. Some stopped their wives from having a job or doing something relevant to help humanity. I would choose a good job over a bad marriage because I have seen the pains in it all. Truly a woman's money is her power. And a woman without education, money and a voice would just be treated anyhow. I would do the good work of passion till the day God calls me to glory. Like my mother do say, " A bad man can make a good woman loose Heaven." this is true, most women are doing illegal things to keep a man who do not even want them or want to be kept.
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