Someone once said: a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
A broken relationship is better than the loveless marriage I see everyday. Abusive traits are always there at the onset but most ladies get blinded by love, thinking love can change a person. The truth is, you can't change an abuser, you just have to manage those characters as long as you stay with him, of course men also faces abuse too. Many ladies force pregnancy on their men and make this men marry them at all cost, tomorrow when they start seeing hell, the go round seeking for advice. Many loveless marriages today are marriages built on pressure, unwanted pregnancy and the rest. Marriage as such don't last long. Marriage should be built and bind with love so when the love is sour, you rekindle it. Building a marriage in a loveless foundation don't work and putting the children in this stuff makes it worst. I have said this before and I will keep saying it, bad homes and families make people just keep enduring their bad and abusive marriages till the point of depression and even death. If some women had good homes and loving family members, they won't be staying in bullshit. I mean, if I am a mother I wouldn't want to see my girl suffering in the hands of an abuser. Most girls without their parent's consent move into a man's house which is so wrong. If a man does not love you, please let him go. If he beats you, disgraces you in public, please don't beat him back... Run. If he can't apologise when he is wrong and makes you feel guilty for it, let him go. The trait are always there but some ignore it, to them it is normal. Apart from marriage, you should have a life. In fact, first secure life before marriage. Marriage will always come, you can get a man even at 30 years but you won't be able to pick up yourself and start all over again if your life is ruined by a bad marriage. I use my mother as an example, it is really terrible I must say.
A broken relationship is better than the loveless marriage I see everyday. Abusive traits are always there at the onset but most ladies get blinded by love, thinking love can change a person. The truth is, you can't change an abuser, you just have to manage those characters as long as you stay with him, of course men also faces abuse too. Many ladies force pregnancy on their men and make this men marry them at all cost, tomorrow when they start seeing hell, the go round seeking for advice. Many loveless marriages today are marriages built on pressure, unwanted pregnancy and the rest. Marriage as such don't last long. Marriage should be built and bind with love so when the love is sour, you rekindle it. Building a marriage in a loveless foundation don't work and putting the children in this stuff makes it worst. I have said this before and I will keep saying it, bad homes and families make people just keep enduring their bad and abusive marriages till the point of depression and even death. If some women had good homes and loving family members, they won't be staying in bullshit. I mean, if I am a mother I wouldn't want to see my girl suffering in the hands of an abuser. Most girls without their parent's consent move into a man's house which is so wrong. If a man does not love you, please let him go. If he beats you, disgraces you in public, please don't beat him back... Run. If he can't apologise when he is wrong and makes you feel guilty for it, let him go. The trait are always there but some ignore it, to them it is normal. Apart from marriage, you should have a life. In fact, first secure life before marriage. Marriage will always come, you can get a man even at 30 years but you won't be able to pick up yourself and start all over again if your life is ruined by a bad marriage. I use my mother as an example, it is really terrible I must say.
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