Handling children can be difficult to those who don't love children and aren't patient enough. Forcing them to do things will only make them hate you, they might even stop associating with you. Here is how to be patient with them, making them do things without forcing them;
Make tasks fun: Never complain so much to children so they won't start seeing things as burdensome. If it is reading, add fun to it, if it is house chores, make them enjoy doing it. If they complain about everything, seeing tasks as burdensome, you would be forcing them to do such tasks. But if such tasks is enjoyable, you won't force them, they do it without force and complaints.
Appreciate and praise them for the little they have done: children love praises, clap for them, buy them gift, entertain them, take them out with their friends, all these and more gives them positive vibes and the motivation to do more.
Let them have breaks from task: Working on a task all day, weeks or months will only make them complain. Let them have their break time.
Listen to them, get their opinions.
Break work or tasks into smaller divisions: everyone should be at his own tasks this way, they would be faster. Let them do tasks at the same time.
Invite them to join you in doing a task.
Avoid giving them too much instructions while on the task so they won't feel bored, give them instructions and let them carry out the task.
Make tasks fun: Never complain so much to children so they won't start seeing things as burdensome. If it is reading, add fun to it, if it is house chores, make them enjoy doing it. If they complain about everything, seeing tasks as burdensome, you would be forcing them to do such tasks. But if such tasks is enjoyable, you won't force them, they do it without force and complaints.
Appreciate and praise them for the little they have done: children love praises, clap for them, buy them gift, entertain them, take them out with their friends, all these and more gives them positive vibes and the motivation to do more.
Let them have breaks from task: Working on a task all day, weeks or months will only make them complain. Let them have their break time.
Listen to them, get their opinions.
Break work or tasks into smaller divisions: everyone should be at his own tasks this way, they would be faster. Let them do tasks at the same time.
Invite them to join you in doing a task.
Avoid giving them too much instructions while on the task so they won't feel bored, give them instructions and let them carry out the task.
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