Do you know that some act make one go mad. Like I have been imagining this and it is actually ridiculous. For instance, I am mighty, rich, famous and an humanitarian, then I am in a position of helping people, I help them, promise to help some. Thereafter, I start demanding sex from them. I fuck them, fuck their friends, fuck their children, fuck everybody. How does that feels? Won't people think I am a mad woman?Besides, I may contract some diseases too. To me sex is beyond pleasure and the physical. When you sex someone, you bond, his or her spirit follows you. And most men who do this just do it boldly without shame. I think it is more spiritual than physical because someone won't just be sexing anyhow with just anybody, probably a stranger. Most bad behaviours you see are not just normal, it could be spiritual.
Okay, that was by the way.
Today I will write on the act of talking or you may say speaking. Now, what is talking? Do you know? Alright, I can help you. Talking is the act of conversing or discussing. In language, we call it Discourse. In the act of talking, there are actually things to say and things not to say especially when you know your interlocutor might read meaning to certain words or might even get offended. Below are the guidelines to follow while talking:
Watch your mood, make sure your speech is not affected by it.
Talk in a gentle manner.
Don't say everything that exist in your mind. Some minds are dirty.
Let your words be soothing.
Don't bad talk anyone in public. All criticism must be private.
Be polite please.
Don't talk while angry.
Your words might be used against you, mind what you tell your colleagues.
Don't be authoritative, except when necessary.
Avoid unnecessary gossip.
Talk, stop, listen to what others have to say. Don't be the only one talking. It is rude.
Learn how to talk well, mostly with elders. Most people don't know how to really talk. Know when to use jargons and when not to.
Okay, that was by the way.
Today I will write on the act of talking or you may say speaking. Now, what is talking? Do you know? Alright, I can help you. Talking is the act of conversing or discussing. In language, we call it Discourse. In the act of talking, there are actually things to say and things not to say especially when you know your interlocutor might read meaning to certain words or might even get offended. Below are the guidelines to follow while talking:
Watch your mood, make sure your speech is not affected by it.
Talk in a gentle manner.
Don't say everything that exist in your mind. Some minds are dirty.
Let your words be soothing.
Don't bad talk anyone in public. All criticism must be private.
Be polite please.
Don't talk while angry.
Your words might be used against you, mind what you tell your colleagues.
Don't be authoritative, except when necessary.
Avoid unnecessary gossip.
Talk, stop, listen to what others have to say. Don't be the only one talking. It is rude.
Learn how to talk well, mostly with elders. Most people don't know how to really talk. Know when to use jargons and when not to.
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