Just let a child be free for once like from the age of 18. Teach children how to make and earned money legally, these things are not taught in schools. Don't just keep them indoors and spoon feed them forever, during holidays allow them look for jobs, allow them work. The money may be small but the knowledge and experience they will gain is much more than money. Through that, they would have working experiences. I was so unfortunate to have parents who dragged me indoors and yet still blame me for my failures. Let your children learn life through working with people. Teach a child how to be industrious and independent in case you are no more. Create family businesses or anything that will keep them busy during holidays. Train them in such a way that they can work and earn money through their skills, especially in times where there are scarcity of jobs. No jobs, but they can survive, they can take care of their families. You can also let them volunteer, volunteering is good too, it prepares them for the future. They get to learn life skills through volunteering. Let children be themselves, most of them are just too talented to ignore, some are gifted but their parents make this talent die inside of them. They make them timid, have stage fright or run into their shell. All these are as a result of bad parenting. Encourage your children to be great. If they can sing, give them music lessons or class. Just make them feel great. There is nothing as sweet as parents applauding their children in public. Good parents do this and I wish I had one or I could just be adopted. It motivate such child or children to do more. My parents never took part in my school activities, they never took part in my school life. My father just paid the fees. I never had anyone who encouraged me. My mother did not go to school, she did not really know these things but my father, our school activities were never his concern. So I had to encourage myself instead. I had to stay strong for myself.
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