Parenting Isn't For Everyone 10

I am always talking about fathers because in Africa, fathers are the Head and make major decisions in the home. In fact, all decisions because most women don't even have a say in anything. Apart from my father being abusive, he never told us anything about himself, he kept a lot of secrets. He always gave us advice shouting at the roof top of the house. He had money and we were his slave, he never had feelings, I mean human sympathy. I got to know him from people outside. He was very good to strangers and so mean to us. My mother wasn't working so we all were depending on him for survival. He was wicked, I mean it, my own father. He never gave us money for food and starve us sometimes of food. He made people, his church people disrespect us. He never regard my mother as anything even after over 25 years of marriage. My mother had no one and had to stay enduring him. Most men with money are wicked, extremely wicked, they don't consider others feelings even their family. You get to see the true colour or character of a man when he has money or have people working under him, forget when he is poor. Poverty humbles a lot of people. I mean what I am saying. He sometimes stopped us from going to church. I never knew how my mother coped with him, because he is truly hell. He always sing God songs but I never saw God in him. He was kind of a cult man or something. He wasn't a man of God. My mother never knew how much he earned as salary. He never allowed us to work either. We were his domestic slave, doing all the house chores without an appreciation or love from him. He never wanted a maid in his house or any kind of person. Most men are like this, when they have money their family becomes their enemy. He commends himself for being the best father but I most tell you the truth, he wasn't anything good. He always said that to get people's praises. He wasn't anything good. If not for what people would have said, he wouldn't have given us education or if my mother had left him. Parenting Isn't For Everyone, don't bring children into this world to turn them into slave or what I don't even know.

When I tell people this, they don't believe me because he is a wolf in sheep clothing and my mother never let people know who he is truly. The worst thing in life is having money yet your children or family don't enjoy you. He was a control freak. You can't go out and come back in peace, you can't even eat in peace. If you finally found a job, he always had a way of confusing one so you just leave the job, stay at home, clean and cook for him all day, leaving your life to live for him. Because of my father, I had no working experience, except those ones I did during school days. He never allowed me work and he won't even give me the money I need. Don't meet a man with money, someday you will become his slave. Stay with a man that loves you. Even if he is poor, access his character and know him better. Money just brings out hell in people I can't describe.