Let nothing define you

Oftentimes, we let others define our lives, we live for others instead of living for ourselves. Define who you are, don't let people's bitterness turn you into something else, probably into their bitterness too. There are people who would stop you from winning, or from being great, be great, be successful and do not be that person they thought you would be. People will mock, ridicule or say anything just to discourage you, make you look like them or even fall. Just keep going. Your pains should not define you, your boss, husband or wife's bad attitude should not make you one. The greatest beauty is seen when you heal from your pains. Don't look what you went through. Don't be one because people might run away from you. Bad experiences are for lessons not so we transfer it to innocent people. These people didn't cause your pains. When I hear stories of people, I am surprise. Why? Because they barely look what they went through. Let others express their feelings, don't be a bully or become one. Don't force people to be normal and behave the way you do, we all had different upbringing. If someone else's belief isn't what you belief, don't hate them. That is what they know. Over times, we treat others disgustingly because we feel ours is better but who knows, theirs may be better too or even the best. Let nothing define you, let nothing turn you into a beast. Not sorrow, not bitterness, not hatred, not rejection, not mockery, not abuse. Cry if you can but please don't let all these define you.