IF YOU CAN'T HELP THEM AT LEAST DON'T BREAK THEM

Yesterday, I spoke with two girls who were facing abuse. The first left home because of her stepmother, the other was pushed out of the house because she was pregnant and had a stillbirth. Her mother handed her over to a man and left her up till today her mother is nowhere to be found. In the course of this, they passed through a lot, no job, no money, they were left at the mercy of people. People refused to give them shelter, they tagged them, "The bad children" when they told me their problems, I told them mine too. You see, not everyone is blessed with loving families. Encourage, support, help, motivate, give a listening ear to the abused so they can heal. Don't trigger or make their situation worst. You can provide them shelter, you can give them food. Just help them anyway you can but don't break them. Give love, give love, give another love, have reasons to give love. Love your family! Lack of love in family, make children leave home and wander the street. Lack of love in homes makes one live as though they have no family. Some deny their families because of how bad things are. There is good news! Let God heal you so you can go home and love your family, family is not only by blood. Anyone who loves you sincerely and you love them back is family. Don't die in pains. Let the burden off you, there are still good people around you that can help. I am most concerned about the abused because I have been there, I know how it feels. When God gives one a family and they turn back to hurt and give pains. I know how it feels especially when they abuse come from those whom God passed through to bring you to earth. It hasn't been easy to connect and make people love me as I never got the love I wanted from my family. I was different, I was the bad girl at home, my father threatened to disown me, his words were negative, I had depression, I died every time I went to bed and I woke up every morning to continue. I never loved home, I was always looking for an avenue to flee. This was worst because I had no money, I had no job, I had no relative who truly loved. People failed me, the very people I trusted. I squatted with a church member but after some time I left her. She wanted to use me to make money, she wanted me to sleep with men for money, I couldn't do it, I left. You tell people your problems and it seems like an entertainment. They did not really care, some even asked me, "Don't you have a family." I never knew what to say anymore. Yes, people will break you, but be strong. Hope in God, He alone can mend broken things. Give shelter, give love, motivate, inspire, give listening ears, give food, help but don't break them. 

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