HOW TO DISCIPLINE CHILDREN

Discipline with love,

Discipline but don't be toxic/abusive, 

Discipline and don't curse, 

Discipline without brutality, 

Discipline but don't make them subject of ridicule. 

Parents/guardians need to discipline their children with love. Don't just shut them up, ask them why they did a bad act. You don't have to be a monster or carrying cane around so children can obey you. Be playful at the same time strict. Don't be too playful so the won't be loose, Discipline them when you have too and don't be too strict that they get so scared of you. If they don't go along with you or aren't free with you, they find it difficult to open up and say their minds, pains and feelings. I had one who was very free with me but wasn't free with her parents because they were monsters, they expect her to be prefect and could kill her for opening up or saying anything bad. She confides in me. If you don't let your children be free with you, they would confide in strangers. They will do abortions and you aren't aware, they would have sex and get pregnant and you wouldn't know. Communicate with them, communication is key, closed doors communications. Let them know what is right and what is wrong so they won't have excuses. Don't ridiculous them in public so they won't think little of themselves, talk to them in private. Let them apologize when they are wrong, don't defend their bad behaviours. You can make them read up a book and summarize it when they misbehave. Or pick up words from the dictionary and make sentences with it. Discipline, be playful, don't be hard on them, don't be harsh and forgive, try not to be reminding them of their Sins.