In life, we get to meet people, the good, bad, worst and all. Your ability to succeed in life depends on how you deal with people and their attitude. You don't succeed all by yourself, you need people. I have met really mean people, frustrated souls whose only joy is to talk shit behind people's back and pretend as friends when they see them. I have see people who have talked shit about my sisters and I so as to get friends and people flocking around them. Some low self-esteem people. I don't react, I don't talk back, I only pretend as if nothing happened. When I see this set of people, I laugh, I laugh really hard. You don't get to shine or succeed by talking down others, even if you do such successes does not last. You walk as a team to succeed and win. Only bitter people talk shit about others. I have seen this set of people over and over again, their life isn't anyway better. To deal with such people, be calm, don't react. Don't take them as friends as they pretend to be else, they destroy things for you. Just be calm, smile, laugh and follow them like a fool they think you are. Don't disclose your personal stuffs to them.
Most people are truly good. They are good and wants nothing in return. They good ones are rare, they are covered by the bad ones such that their good deeds are hardly noticeable. Now, many people make this mistake and later regret it. Your coworker, colleagues, coursemate and others are not your friends. They might want to get close to you in order to get information or things they might use against you to get the favour of your boss. Everyone is fighting for their own interests. Everyone wants money, promotion and favours from their boss and making friends with such people will only complicate things for you. Even if your coworker is as good as Jesus, he or she will betray you someday. Be official with this people. This does not mean you shouldn't joke and laugh with them, do but please guide what you say. They might use it against you. Human beings are selfish in nature.
Be good to people on your way up, you will surely meet them on your way down. Never take people for granted. Even if you don't like them, don't take them for granted. They might help you someday especially people you never expected to help. If you are in a position to help someone please do assist. You will be remembered for it. Goodness pays, it comes back like karma. Don't be quick to kick people out of your life. Socialize with everyone regardless of their bad attitudes. You know without gossips and enemies, you wouldn't know your weak point and work on it. Probably something your friends wouldn't tell you, because it hurt. You know your flaws, correct it and learn from it.
Finally, be good, humble, calm when meeting people. Through your good deeds you might be recommended. A gateman might recommend you someday for a job. Never look down on anyone. Help build people up rather than tearing them apart, encourage someone to be great. By doing good you become greet too. Be at peace with everyone.
Most people are truly good. They are good and wants nothing in return. They good ones are rare, they are covered by the bad ones such that their good deeds are hardly noticeable. Now, many people make this mistake and later regret it. Your coworker, colleagues, coursemate and others are not your friends. They might want to get close to you in order to get information or things they might use against you to get the favour of your boss. Everyone is fighting for their own interests. Everyone wants money, promotion and favours from their boss and making friends with such people will only complicate things for you. Even if your coworker is as good as Jesus, he or she will betray you someday. Be official with this people. This does not mean you shouldn't joke and laugh with them, do but please guide what you say. They might use it against you. Human beings are selfish in nature.
Be good to people on your way up, you will surely meet them on your way down. Never take people for granted. Even if you don't like them, don't take them for granted. They might help you someday especially people you never expected to help. If you are in a position to help someone please do assist. You will be remembered for it. Goodness pays, it comes back like karma. Don't be quick to kick people out of your life. Socialize with everyone regardless of their bad attitudes. You know without gossips and enemies, you wouldn't know your weak point and work on it. Probably something your friends wouldn't tell you, because it hurt. You know your flaws, correct it and learn from it.
Finally, be good, humble, calm when meeting people. Through your good deeds you might be recommended. A gateman might recommend you someday for a job. Never look down on anyone. Help build people up rather than tearing them apart, encourage someone to be great. By doing good you become greet too. Be at peace with everyone.
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